The wife's cousins don't really care for us much. We started seeing them a lot less in the past year and there isn't much doubt that my arrival in the family didn't help matters.
Last year the cousins recruited a huge team for an autism walk. The wife and I forked over some big money and participated in the walk. We found out last night that the cousins ran the team again this year and didn't even invite us.
The wife is concerned about our relationship with her cousins. I said, "If you won't even send someone an e-mail to ask for money, that's true hatred. I'm sorry."